SM-style husband having an affair and being trained; forced cross-dressing maid for all kinds of love; Sunflower QRDA-193

I found a business card in my husband's pants pocket; it was for an SM club. We had already agreed never to go again, but I discovered he was hiding it from me. I confronted "Sunflower" about it, but my husband wouldn't say a word. I was furious!